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personal Responsibility includes careful resource management with respect for EVERYTHING

we gave up our personal responsibility, so we lost control

Responsibility means SACRIFICE.. a word we have not only neglected .. but totally forgotten

we got a lot of help though. Ranting about voting is actually nonsense. Government now does pretty much what it wants to. So we have to take charge of a lot more than voting! WE gave up control over our education, just followed the rules to "HIGHER EDUCATION" which very often resulted only inhume student loan debt.

As a Society, we have also lost our respect for anything but self and easy.

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Take PERSONAL Responsibility!!Something we quit doing decade

Love this shirt! we need to laugh but it is true! Take some freakin' RESPONSIBILITY. People do BAD things and people make mistakes! Do we give fireworks to everybody and say FIREWORKS are not the problem .. IDIOTS are. I am not sure now if this is for Left brain CONSERVATIVES? Are they saying don't take away cars, take away people? Yes, but we can just make BAD mistakes .. and anger and despair can make us do stupid stuff! A gun is easy to do BIG bad stuff with. We don't take away knives because it is adder to do a HUGE mess with a knife. O M G .. those gun crazies think they have SUCH CONTROL IN THEIR LIFE, that they would never make a mistake! OMG .. across the road in Hamilton those people KILLED a guy coming in their window. That is EVIL!! It's true Left brains are more disciplined BUT also are WARRIOR like .. "he LOOKS like a bad guy .. KILL HIM before he kills you". Unbelievable I forgot that horror across the road from 40 years ago!!! YIKE .. this fits their simplifying nature!

Sat. July 2, 2022.

oh dear .. I am an idiot .. definitely a gun right's shirt. UNBELIVABLE! they are RIGHT .. but in their normal completely SIMPLIFY way!! OMG .. this is why my daughter said she disliked me, because I always had a "BUT .. !!". In other words at first I totally agreed with this shirt BUT .. we can not KNOW what is in a person's heart or mind AND accidents happened!! Therefore NO GUNS! Guns may be a protection from the police that no longer protect us .. but they are DANGEROUS. Yes.. maybe the day is coming when we do need to protect ourselves from them but let's hope we still have time to clean up this Huge mess we have made before a WAR starts.


In every situation the " BUT .. !" is ALWAYS smarter than a fast simple decision!! But I guess not if we are being PHYSICALLY attacked by the Control Structure, as is happening more and more. Still waiting to hear what happened with the 27 year old the police just decided to shoot in Scarborough. So when and old white lady wonders about a gun .. we DEFINITELY have problems on our hands.

Without responsibility, respect and better resource management we are over

r3 or die .. become r3 .. responsible, respectful and less wasteful of our (god) given resources

Doubt we can .. BUT prove me wrong! let's sacrifice and be "r3"

If they don't want to take control of their life .. we will

.. just go it alone. We will regain our PERSONAL control, and then they will beg to join us later.

No more working for pennies and getting no respect for a job well done. But that will mean buying less. Everything falls apart anyway, so why pay good money for it in the first place? Let's reduce our life to 100 things. It will take a lot of Discipline but we can make it fun together. I am OLD .. when I remember how much stuff we had as a kid to children now it is awful!! Their stuff even has batteries. A kid just swallowed one is is probably damaged for life. What happened to blocks and legos? and making stuff out of nothing. We had vinegar and baking soda from the KITCHEN that also was all of our cleaning needs. Do you own Febreeze? GET OUT! Sorry, comeback when you re evaluate your purchasing decisions. IF our place SMELLS, maybe we need to clean more, put garbage out faster, do laundry sooner .. NOT SPRSY MORE USELESS CHEMICALS IN THE AIR!


Sorry most of our brains are gone. Hopefully they are like muscles and with some new good energy we can get our brain working again. Febreeze is only one example of how we have been HAD. We spend money we don't have .. for things we don't need! Honestly .. we do NOT need half the crap in our house. bbbbb link

This site is for the probably 60% plus of us ..waking up in panic every day now.

Those of us MANY who are struggling .. ARE "in this together"! And we  CAN come out of this horrible time, better off. But it will take self discipline and RE-eductaion. What better time to take back our control, than in this new strange and scary period? 


Over the last 50 years we gave up ALL our power to a "profit system" that did not include most of us. Especially young people are now left far behind. We older simply did what Marketers wanted and became "sheep Consumers". Corporations now even get us to WANT truly idiotic concepts for their extra profit. We fall in line with no thought ever to the dystopia being created. Those of us wondering where jobs will come from, recognize things are going very wrong today. Even food delivery will be taken over by strange pink robot boxes if you live in Toronto. And those degrees that promised the world are delivering food or pouring coffee. Let's take back natural ways.


Corporations got so obsessed with PROFIT, they completely forgot our VALUE to them. We are their consumers and without Consumers  buying,  where will their profit be? No job means no buying. They get less sales when none of us can even pay our rent! 


Let's forget about asking "the man" for a "job" (modern "mini -slavery").  Let's create a Trade System where we share our skills and resources between us. We will need to go back to local and knowing our neighbours, but that should never have been given up for the "global screen". First, we need Tools we can use THIS MINUTE to calm our terror.

you un-panicked ("have" people) go directly to .. (no! not hell!) .. go to this link. You are lucky to not be in a rent /food panic! Maybe you will kindly invest in us by being a member, or go fund (us)?

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