to survive, and then thrive, Let's take back control of our life

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to survive, and then thrive, Let's take back control of our life

to survive, and then thrive, Let's take back control of our lifeto survive, and then thrive, Let's take back control of our lifeto survive, and then thrive, Let's take back control of our life
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feeling deserving ..we deserve a decent quality of life too!

Some of us have been crushed by life events and feel less than .. not deserving of goodness. The fact that we feel guilty shows we are kind. Maybe we listened to mean bullies saying we were useless. That we listened says just the opposite about us, we are listeners and thinkers, but not for US, for our OWN good. We deserve a BETTER quality of life than mean people! So we must connect with good, kind people and work at our MISTAKEN belief that we have less value.

It will take self discipline .. but discipline or taking REAL control is our biggest POWER TOOL for creating good.

Without hope .. the belief in possibility for a better quality of life .. it is very hard to survive

But if we feel undeserving, we will not be hopeful or optimistic. we will sabotage our "success"!

Without us feeling that we also, are "deserving" of good, Sorry .. but It will never come to us!!

there is a magic "law of attraction"! we get what we focus on, even if it is subconscious.

we can sabotage our life, subconsciously punishing ourself!

Why are not so nice, less kind people more often the successful ones?

I suggest that they think they are pretty cool, deserving only the best. They EXPECT things to work for them. They have simplified life into "work hard and success is yours". They focus solely on what tasks are required to reach their goal .. and do those ACTIONS .. WITHOUT BEING SIDETRACKED BY ANY OUTSIDE THOUGHTS. They have a BRAIN that is wired to focus on ACTION, doing the next step to reach their goal of "success". They are not slowed by thoughts of what their actions cause or consequences THEIR success may have on other people. Successful people tend to be confident, feeling deserving of any good coming to them. They worked hard,  they got the job done .. and so should you!


But if our mind is more thinkng focused we see the consequences of our action. Sure our biz could have more profit just using a robot instead of that troublesome worker .. but how do those let go employees now eat? Since we think more than "right brain" people, we probably have guilt over many of our own past actions. We could even be harbouring things from our childhood that have shaped our entire life. You have probably heard of the law of attraction. It is now known to be scientific fact, a magnet force in our thoughts. If we spent our life thinking we are"bad" .. not deserving .. NO GOOD WILL COME TO US. This undeservedness is probably SUBCONSCIOUS .. YET IT IS SABOTAGING US EVERY DAY!


We need to get our head focused right! Stop thinking we do not deserve a GREAT quality of life for ourself. It is hard because it is deep in our mind and almost unknown to us. What happened in your life to make you feel unworthy of great things? Did someone always tell you that you were useless until it became part of your belief system? Do you feel Quilty because someone was badly affected by a decision you made? Try to find what made you BELIEVE that you do not deserve wondrous things. It may be deep in your subconscious so while you "investigate cause" just start using the magnet. Picture what you want in life, work toward it but always believing YOU deserve it too. Believing in (god) helps .. because he does not create junk and he does LOVE us


I was a horrible child and said "I hate you and will be glad when you die" to my mom .. and she did. Of course I have spent my life thinking I deserve only punishment and loss .. and the law of attraction MAGNET made it happened. I have had a life of mostly loss, plus never succeeding to reach that "Art TV" invention Business partner that was needed.) Let's work together to focus our brain on deserving "success" just as others do. WE DO DESERVE TOO and we can make the MAGNET work for us too.


(God) or whoever the "Master Developer" was 

law of attraction .. the magnet in our life

you think you do not deserve? that means you are a thoughtful kind person .. and you certainly do!

now .. our biggest job is building "self discipline" .. the most important power tool of all.

with self discipline you can increase your control ..

remembering to breathe and take control of your body

If customers can’t find it, it doesn’t exist. Clearly list and describe the services you offer. Also, be sure to showcase a premium service.

remembering to TAKE CONTROL of your mind. Reframe everything to positive

Having a big sale, on-site celebrity, or other event? Be sure to announce it so everybody knows and gets excited about it.

Wake up thinking duality .. that you will FOCUS only with optimism

Are your customers raving about you on social media? Share their great stories to help turn potential customers into loyal ones.

Thinkng god does not make losers .. you are a good human deserving a good quality of life.

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Focusing on optimism gets the law of attraction working for you

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